Wood rat looking for love and publishing a book this summer 2024.

Hello, I am wood rat born 29.10.-84. I am currently in crossroads, for I feel like it is time for me to find a life partner, but there are also many summer-job opportunities available at this time. Should I concentrate on having fun and looking out for a husband that way, or spend the summer working - which way would I be luckier in love?
I am also about to publish a book for children and adults, is there anything I should be mindful of according to the matter at this time?