Two 1957 Roosters - very different aspirations

My husband and I are both Roosters, born in1957. I want us to enjoy retired life, but we are very different. I want to explore different experiences and enjoy life, he says that he has retired so that he doesn’t have to do anything, which annoys me. I am always on time, he is always late. I like to be organised and have a plan, he hates being tied down to a schedule. We are retired now and I’d us to be free to choose how we spend our time but time could just pass us by because my Rooster partner is reluctant to take or make a decision about what or how we do anything.