How to believe those zodiac signs?!

Hi. My husband of now almost 10 years born June 1, 1974 (Tiger) ;
And I born January 17, 1976 (which apparently makes me a Rabbit, thou I feel like I’m more Draggon) have the best relationship anyone could dream of. Very passionate, loving, carrying, loyal and respectful.
Reading here about out compatibility is so off, way off… that I’m not sure I can believe any of the horoscopes sayings… My husband is NOT impulsive not bold (unless we talking about his hair 😉) or much energetic at all, he’s more an introvert, shy and I am the one pulling his energy out to surface. I am more passionate, but can have a short temper at times as well, very loyal loving caring with strong energetic personality, ambitious for sure too… thou I always put my ambition in second place behind my family….
now, if I compare my year of birth as a Draggon, that’s more like our relationship. It’s effortless and very happy

Can you explain this to me please? What I’m not understanding here?