Compatibly between two 1956 FIRE MONKEY'S ....

I wanted to know how two fire monkey's born in the year 1956 are at being compatible and we are supposed to be married ....I was born on may 18, 1956 and he was born december 15, 1956 ...him and I both are in some health issues as of now and haven't been able to get to the marriage part
...also we have known each other since we were 8 years old far as going to church together our entire young life.