My sign is Ox (1998) and his is Rooster (1993) but we are not compatible in Western zodiac.

I have met this man about a year ago and was swiftly drawn to him. The closer we got the more happy I was to know him. It turned out that he was just leading me on, as after consuming our lust together a few times, he confessed having feelings for another girl. On my turn, I was having a physical reaction from the sex and had to wait 6 months for the STDs tests to be concluded.
Thankfully, I am OK. He reached out to me and after having some long chats we resumed contact (we both tested clean) but there are no illusions in my mind that he is completely unable to treat me as a good man does a woman. He does not kiss during sex (at all) nor cuddle afterwards. There is no foreplay and he always calls me a taxi. In other words, he is using me and I have had about too much of it 💔
According to the Chinese zodiac, he is a Rooster and I an Ox, and we should be a great match .
According to the Western one, he is a Taurus and I an Aquarius and we are doomed to fail.
Which one makes more sense? Have I missed anything ? Thanks for your time ❤