I’m a female ox born 4/13/1961 ex boyfriend is a snake born 11/25/1953 will we get back together?

I’m an ox. I was in a realationship with a male snake for 2 years and 8 months. In January 2018 he said it wasn’t going to work out and had been seeing someone else since the first of the year. We have not communicated since February. We both needed to communicate clearly to one another when we were together. When is the best chance for our paths to connect or will they ever?