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Asked by CJames from england | Feb. 13, 2018 09:06

About:Snake's Personality and Characteristics

Chris born december 1977 from England

I have looked up the positives and love description here about snakes having lots of women flocking to them, well with me, the polar opposite applies. Infact, I haven't had anyone go near me since age 29. I was as unpopular as men could be growing up, so is it possible that I will ever meet a life long partner/soul mate?

Career - I'm in a job that I despise and yes, this is very oppressive and mind damaging and I don't have self esteem anymore (I have mild autism also). I noticed - writer appearing as one option that would suit a snake, so maybe I could stand a chance? for I have gotten into writing within the last 18 months on and off. I am also a past-time dancer, but is it too late at 40? I wouldn't know where to start to make it as a dancer or even a writer but those 2 potentials are latent and I have discovered them late, but I'm fighting against a mind of being constantly put down, and striving for a better future.

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Answered by James | Feb. 13, 2018 21:31

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Hey, Chris, don't be so upset. You should have more confidence about yourself. Of course you will find the life long soul mate. 2018 will be a good year for you to develop love relationship. But you need to take more actions and pursue love bravely.

About your career, you may have several chances to become a nice writer. In addition, you should think about which the most interested field is. Thus make full use of your intelligence to learn more things related it. Finally, you will get successes.

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Answered by Chris | Feb. 14, 2018 14:45

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Hi. Many thanks for the response and I sincerely hope that you are right (or should that be write? hehe)... I'm more into dance than writing, but writing Is something I do bits at a time. I am actually writing a novel about a lonely dancer who gets fed up of his life being in the smog laden cities full of dark entities that surround his very vicinity, and so he takes time off and travels, then meets a female dancer who has been captured and left viscously until the morning's light for tribal entities wish to do rituals on her with malicious torture. Then begins an adventure in the wilderness with plenty of booby traps. I have done about 11-12 chapters so far with other writings to forge into the novel at some point too. I have been advised to send some writings that I have done by a friend to a website in actual fact.

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Answered by Chris | Feb. 14, 2018 14:52

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If truth be told, I did like a female dancer, but she has been toying with me at a social dance event since last October. We spoke for a few minutes before she asked what career I did. We didn't speak much more that night but since then, she has been dancing in front of me changing her rhythm like she has wanted me to notice. Yet the one night, she spoke to almost everyone except myself (the week after we spoke) - yet at one point in the wild hearted dance, her body completely faced mine - when I wasn't looking at her directly. From what I saw by that was her wanting to gain attention for herself.

The next time she was there, she was really going to town with the dance and dancing in front of me, mirroring at least 6 of the dance moves that I did, and went down to the floor also, when I did a couple of moves where I went down to my knees. She even got infront of me, stop for a couple of beats before changing her rhythm. The following week at the end of 1 dance, she stood 1 metre away from me and paced up and down slowly for like 2 minutes.

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Answered by Chris | Feb. 14, 2018 14:56

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Yet, at the end of the night when we sit in a circle, she never sits beside me. It feels to me like she is trying wanting me to want her, so that she can deliberately kick me down (so many women have toyed with me in someway but this one has been doing this since last October). Practically every time she has been there since, she has been doing things like this. She even walked past me one night and muttered "UH!" under her breath, yet I could just about hear it.
We finally spoke briefly in early January, and she had quite a raised soft feminine voice as she walked away, and so I flashed the car lights to her, and gave her a wave and a smile and she returned this, and it seemed like she was hoping I would do such (you know, like she partly looked round to face me).

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Answered by Chris | Feb. 14, 2018 15:10

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Yet she doesn't hang about to exactly speak with me (I get changed in a room at the opposite end of the church hall so when I'm out of the room, she is gone anyway - and in my mind, if she was sincere, she would make an effort to speak). She was there last night, and well, when I danced with another female (not intentionally, and it was more of a tribal non contact dance), from a distance, it seemed like she looked irritated. I just sensed that almost like anger in a sense. Now she was the prettiest looking female in the event last night (not model looking but I'd say a solid 7.5/10 easily) and she ended up sitting alone when everyone was coupled up in dance (I wasn't making contact physically of course)so either no one is good enough in her mind or something else is at play here.

Needless to say, she walked straight past me when I sat in the car with the door partly open last night. But she never speaks with me either, so is it safe to say that I am right in thinking that she is toying with me to deliberately want to hurt me? I've somehow been unable to shake her off (no pun intended being a dancer), I mean, she has done this for several months? even in the earlier days, she used to do some scenting tactics, but I feel like she has targeted me maliciously, yet I see signs at times, like her workplace (I saw 2 workers from her place 2 days after we spoke in January - on 1-11 and I saw and spoke with an employer last Wednesday as I was on delivery)

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Answered by Chris | Feb. 14, 2018 15:17

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From what I saw, she would have been there 23rd January if she wasn't toying with me? I just wish I could find closure for this. I have asked in meditation for such, yet I'm lead to conflicting scenarios that suggest to try pursuing on one hand, yet on another, it could be toying, and how the 2 females I had the non contact dance with last night came at those timed moments. Also, on the way out of the conference in October when we did speak, and I found out her name, on the way out, whilst she was there, an Asian woman came upto me and told me I'm a great dancer and that I should apply for Bollywood (I don't have the courage however for I am now 40 also without dance training - started dance at 37 - well, regularly anyway, I danced occasionally at 36 1/2 but its safe to say at least once - 2/3x weekly for 2 years now),

I just don't know what to think but I feel targeted by her. She doesn't really get close to men though she talks with one that she knows there, but I can't help but feel like she wants to belittle me in a way. I'm very defensive myself however and I have also ignored her too but I can't handle rejection anymore, for I'm far too used to being seen as the ugly duckling and I have experienced being belittled in public by big groups of females when I was younger. I've been castigated for my looks, mild autism and I just cannot see past this really, and this female has been conflicting in mixed signals. I'm annoyed with myself for allowing myself to actually like her.

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Answered by Chris | Feb. 14, 2018 15:21

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Anyway, I'm sorry to place all this on you. I really needed to let this out, for this whole scenario has drove me absolutely crazy since 10th October last year when she didn't speak to me, yet she consistently did all the dance scenting things. Besides, I can't ever see anyone even remotely attractive liking me and I know looks aren't everything, but it would be nice to trade off at a visual 7/10 (anything above could be too high maintenance and I want someone on my wavelength) and she usually averages a straight 7, plus I found her to be very mentally stimulating when we did speak briefly but she out earns me and is very educated so I don't even think I'm good enough for someone like her, I have aspergers and I was a very late bloomer. I know, I'm damaged goods.

I did like one dancer for ages before this female now, but this one has driven me out of my mind and I don't usually allow this to happen but for some reason, it just has happened, but I;m stubborn and never give chase, I'm very guarded too.

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