More closeness with husband:My husband was born April 25, 1970 and I was born May 26, 1978.

We have a strong relationship, but we do sometimes fight. More importantly, I would like more intimacy and closeness: hugging, holding hands, etc. He loves me deeply, but keeps his distance. How can I bring him closer to me emotionally? How can I help him to be more receptive to my affectionate nature?