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Asked by Meng from japan | May. 05, 2017 06:22

About:Year of the Rat

End of my marriage?

Hello,
My name is Meng, I was born November 15th 1984 and my husband October 25th 1975. We got married on April 5th 2013, only 10 months after meeting each other. This is now about 8 months I am not happy at all as my husband is very preoccupied by his passion of video games than our houseold. He also spend a lot of time away from home for work and anytime he is back, we never take time to talk about our difficulties. He does not want to face and ignores me instead. I do not want to live the rest of my life like this and considering a separation. Is it a good idea ?

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Answered by Peter | May. 05, 2017 18:39

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Meng,
I’m not surprised that you feel in this way. Your husband is experiencing his opposite year, and he is most threatened from his work. You also have a not so good year, and seem not to take into consideration the big picture, namely to be together for better and for worse, as you two have promised to each other in your marriage vows. You contracted a marriage in a water year, from which, astrologically, both of you will benefit. Rat and Rabbit can have a normal married life. A marriage signed in a Water year also suffers in a Fire year. If you listen to my advice, and explain to him your concerns, I’m sure he will accept your reasonable demands. You need to wait until 2020 and 2021 so your marriage will give the best results. A separation is a bad idea, as you husband is a very good man. Try to see things from his prospective too. He too can learn. This year you are prone to harbor unreasonable expectations from a man who has his opposite year. Please think more. Good luck to both of you.

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Answered by Meng | May. 05, 2017 20:15

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Thank you Peter, your point is valuable. The problem I am having is that my husband does not want to listen to me when I try to work on our relationship and he dos not see that we do not communicate, do not spend time together. We do not share anything anymore because is work as well as his video games are the most important things and he also is very greedy with money. I already told him I can't keep going this way and he told me I can go if I am not happy. I do not know what to do and It is very hard for me to find someone to talk to.

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Answered by Meng | May. 05, 2017 20:38

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Peter Can you erase my email address on the previous question for you? Sorry about the inconvenience.

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Answered by Peter | May. 06, 2017 01:11

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Meng,
You did not write any e-mail address, or at least I didn't see any. Other people write e-mail addresses but I never answer to them. If they want answers, they should write to this site. I wish all the best to you and to your husband.

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