Married for 15 years and now having a big problem.

Dear Mrs. Hope,
Had you asked me 15 years ago, I would’ve told you not to marry a man born in the year of the Dragon, since the compatibility table on this page says you two make the worst couple. What had just happened is an indication of mid-life crisis. From what you are telling me, you are still willing to forgive him, if he drops this other woman and comes back to you. I say that you could still keep this incompatible marriage, but at such a great cost, it may not even justify being saved. It all depends on him and his whim. Talk to him, and “find out from the horse’s mouth”, so to speak, what is his intention. He may accept to drop this woman, only that at a later date to find another woman, and the same story will repeat itself. This year being your lucky year, you have the chance to fix this problem, one way or the other. Good luck.