Will my marriage and job be better?

Loe,
I read your story, and I feel you are in big trouble. While parents mean well to their children, putting pressure on you to marry an incompatible man wasn't wise at all on their part. To be fair to them, not all people know about the good influence of the Chinese Astrology when advising for compatible partners in marriage. Being born in a year which had metal element (Metal Goat 1991) you had a year of hard luck last year (2016), and you will have another hard year this year. My advice to you is to wait for your good times (2018 and 2019) and then good things will happen in your life. You can change your job this year if you want, providing you will change it again in 2018 or 2019. A job you will start in 2019 will be so good to you, that you will retire of old age from it. As for your love life, don't forget that time heals all wounds. Good luck to you.