We plan to move but want to know the ideal time to do this - or should we stay where we are?

Hello,
Just for now, I would advise you to stay where you are. You should find out in what year, month and day was the house you intend to move into, built. If you were to move this year into a house, your stay there would be Fire Monkey entity, which doesn't agree with anyone of you, since you are Metal Rat and your husband Water Snake. What happens when you put metal on fire? It melts. And if you put water on fire, it evaporates. It just happens that your and your husband's astrological elements do not agree with this year's element. You could also chose to ignore it as the majority of people do.