His date of birth is 12 July 1964 and mine is 13 Jan 1969.

Ashlin,
He was born Cancer/Dragon and you were born Capricorn Monkey.These two signs are normally get along and have good relationships. But you both have Cardinal signs (Cancer and Capricorn which are at opposing poles). You will find that you cannot stand the fact that he is too controlling, since his year's element is Wood (live roots of a tree).
This relationship is possible, depending of how much work each of you is prepared to put into it, since naturally there is not such a good bond. Good luck to both of you.