I am a rat and he is a rooster! is there a bright outlook for the coming future?

Lauren, honestly these two signs are incompatible. He is a good analyst as well as a perfectionist. But he is indecisive and overweening. You are smart, practical and upright. He might think that you are a challenge to him. Therefore, he tries to control everything. You are obssessed in family life and very sensitive to your relationship. And you can't allow him to control everything so that you stand up to him.

See, it's difficult for you two maintain your relationship unless both sides realize that you have something something wrong. Then you both change yourself to adapt to each other.