How does Chinese girl get her papers to get married and get visa. Mother holds them. HUNAN PROVINCE

Dwight, I think you two should do your best to get the permission from her parents. A marriage without your families' blessings isn't a successful marriage. There are many ways to get the papers. But I think you should finally make her mom give the paper to your girlfriend willingly unless you both never return to see her parents. If you really did this, could you imagine how heartbroken her parents are?