im leo 1979 sheep, my husband is virgo ,1980 monkey

Vhiane, how do you define successful marriage? To me, you two are successful. Otherwise, you two already divorce. It's impossible to have four lovely kids if you are incompatible.

Monkey is a bit selfish so that he seldom cares for his wife too much. Sheep always do whatever she can to make her family harmonious. However, she is totally fed up because her husband doesn't do well.

If you lead a life exactly like what I said bove, thn you should have a good talk to reach an agreement. A successful marriage and family require both sides to make efforts. One side can't make everything work.