Will we stay married? I, the rooster 1957, my husband the pig 1959

We've been married for 30 years and been thru a lot of hardship in life
We love each other but a lot of quarrellings just happened sometimes, well, many times
Most of the time it was my fault
Sometimes I have bad temper because I am a rooster (as it said above, rooster has hot temple)
Please tell me how to control my temper in order to have a happy marriage
Thank you