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Asked by vixzta from kiwi nz | Jun. 24, 2015 03:39

About:Chinese Zodiac Compatibility

curious to find out if my partner and I are compatible enough to have a family

I have been on and off with My male partner RAT(dob 19/7/72) for the last 9 years .my SNAKE dob.9_3/77. we both have struggled to keep our relationship afloat but I keep finding myself more depressed as we argue and fight more than ever now than when we split 3yrs ago. I love this guy. I've basically known him all my life since iwas 15yrs old. we have no children together. but he has 4 kids all to different mothers. I dont resent him at all as the kids are b4 my time, and i have learnt ova the years to embrace the kids with open arms as I do. will I ever have the opportunity to b a mom as I have struggled to conceive with him? will a baby together solve our ongoing situation? We love each other but I can't do with this stress for much longer as it hurts. please help me I'm not sure what is the right decision to make. I'm confused as I feel like I can't see or don't have a future mapped out? Plz help

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Answered by Vera | Jun. 25, 2015 01:41

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Vixzta, seriously your zodiac signs are compatible. You both are practical and know exactly what you should do. You both know what the other side needs so that you are able to maintain a harmonious relationship.

However, your actual relationship is totally different from what the zodiac claims. If you both really love each other, you should argue and fight. So I think you need to calm down and rethink about your relationship. Before you decide to marry him, you should not have a baby for him. If you can't be together, your baby will not be able to have an intact family in the future.

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Answered by sugarmama | Jun. 25, 2015 22:22

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Babies bring more stress and more responsibility. Babies do not solve anything. He has 4 kids from 4 moms. Yeah it Def won't solve anything with him. Do yourself a favor don't be #5 mom

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Answered by anna | Jun. 26, 2015 15:03

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I hope that you can read your posted question as if someone else, like your best friend or sister, wrote it. You would tell her to run in the other direction!

That man has serious ego problems and don't be the 5th momma to feed his sickness.

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Answered by Stacey-Ann | Jun. 27, 2015 09:42

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I agree with the last comment. He has 4 kids from 4 women wake up, smell the coffee. He won't be serious because he wants the best of both worlds. He wants a family but cant handle the responsibility. He wanted kids stick to one woman. You will never be the only woman he loves.

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Answered by Leslie | Jun. 27, 2015 13:39

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I agree with Anna. Run as fast as you can from this guy.

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Answered by L | Jun. 27, 2015 22:07

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Oh my goodness! No! No and no! Run! You deserve better! There's no on and off! Take care!

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