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Asked by sarah brown from saudi arabia | Jun. 22, 2015 03:14

About:Chinese Zodiac Compatibility

I have met a lovely man but he is 7 years older than me, and I'm still in school. Advice please?

I have spoken briefly to him a few times and it has been great, wonderful but it has always been around other people and about professional matters. I entered our details into your love calculator and we got a perfect match, and i really think that he's the one, but I don't know what to do as it would be inappropriate for us to be together now and it's a long time to expect him to wait until it would be legal/acceptable.
me (female)- 19/10/2000
him- 07/07/93

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Answered by Kate | Jun. 22, 2015 04:26

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Actually, you may fall in love with him out of temporary passion and curiosity. When you grow a bit older, you may feel regret. Your love will be tested by time and difference, if you can survive that, it proves that you are a right couple. In the present, just focus on your dream, and think what you want to do and what you want to become.

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Answered by Julia | Jun. 22, 2015 22:53

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I can tell you that it doesn't matter how much older he is compared to you. My parents have a 20-year gap, and they're the best parents/couples I know!

I should warn you though, just like Kate said, this might be a TEMPORARY crush!

- Anonymous

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Answered by Ivan Godfather | Jun. 26, 2015 21:57

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You are acting like he's 30 y.o. He is still somewhat a teenager, atleast the Rooster sign feels that way. Go for it, and it doesn't matter if you regret it later (I don't see why would you) because what matters is that you enjoy NOW. You will at some point regret almost any decision in life, but does that mean you shoudn't do anything you love at given moment, ever? Obviously not. As for age difference, that's not a big deal, especially here in Europe. My best friend is born in 1990 and he was dating a 1998 girl, and he never thought twice about their age, neither did she. Some friends were making small jokes, but nobody really opposed such thing The rooster sign is egotistical as hell and I am sure he would enjoy defying society's standars and opinions about your age difference. Trust me, I am 1993 Rooster too, and I would be with a girl your age just to get on people's nerves and show them how much their dissaproval means to me.

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Answered by Ivan Godfather | Jun. 26, 2015 22:06

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I am also Cancer in western zodiac like the guy you have a crush on is. So, his personality should be something similar to me.

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Answered by Mr.DONS | Jun. 27, 2015 17:03

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From a Western viewpoint, he is much too old for you considering you are only 15 and he is 22. In 10 years, the difference will be negligible but now, he is 150% older than you.

In most of the US, he could be considered a child molester if you had dating level physical contact and he could be subject to prison.

Enjoy the freedom of your youth for a few more years. You'll be surprised at how many more young men you will find attractive and will be attracted to you.

And don't put too much faith in any 'love calculator". They are just games and there is no scientific evidence used in them.

Good luck.

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