dob- aug 3 1982. female. will i ever get married and when?

Based on your birth date, there is no sign that you will get married again. However, it tells that your relationship with your partner isn't good.

To my understanding, you are just seeking an excuse to end your current relationship. In fact, you needn't an excuse. He has abused you 10 years. Isn't it enough? It's time to end this relationship even though you don't know what kind of future you will have. You know, sometimes you just need to make the first step and then you will find that everything will be different. Be brave! If you are fed up, you should leave now.