1964 dragon (man) in love with 1977 snake (woman)

My birthday is 26 June of dragon year 1964. A few years ago I met & fell in love with a woman born 19 December of snake year 1977. We have always been friendly -- with a possible spark --- but we've also always had other (changing) partners in our lives. And now we live in different states in the US. There is something very, very special about this woman & I wish I could know if we have a chance & if we will ever be more than friends & ever be together. Thank you.