is this a good match and how can I go about make in this person feel love and want me more?

Hey, since you didn’t tell the birth date of you two, there are several different possibilities.
For you: born in 01/01/1976-01/30/1976: rabbit sign;
born in 01/31/1976-12/31/1976: dragon sign;
For your boyfriend: born in 01/01/1981-02/04/1981: monkey sign;
born in 02/05/1981-12/31/1981: rooster sign.
1. If your boyfriend is monkey sign, then you are perfectly matched no matter what sign is yours. You tow have the same goal and similar values towards life. You two always understand and cherish each other in life.
2. If your boyfriend is rooster sign and you are dragon sign, your characteristic and capability are all match to each other perfectly.
3. If your boyfriend is rooster sign and you are rabbit sign, then it is poor matched. For you two have different characteristic, so it is hard for you to make compromise in life.
For situation 1 and 2, he loves you so much that you have nothing to worry about. Just show him your love and care more.
For situation 3, it is better to be tolerant and patient with him, especially when there are arguments. Also, you have to learn to make compromise in daily life.