I need to know when is a good year for me and what crystals are best to work with for this year?

1970, Jan 26th, I am a female, i am not seeing any love in my life however there are many interested people. I am studying. Money is slowly coming in my way. I want to travel but not seeing the finance for it, I am going through my menopause cycle and i feel i might be alone for the rest of my life. My job is not so stable and I am still renting I truly wish for a house but feels this too might pass me by. How do i use plants and crystals in my life to change this energy and also help with my studies. Holly from Trinidad & Tobago