My dob: 7/19/1970 & since 2006, I move in my house has lots of problems with my jobs & husband. Why?

You need to calm down and stop asking why. Think about the problems in your love relationship and job. Does these problems becasuse of you?
Maybe, in the furture, control your temper and have more communication with your partner and other families. In your job, have more patience to deal with the troubles or ask help for your team members.