Work in China -- help please

I know this is a forum about getting a Visa for China -- I have a tourist L that will expire in January 2015 and I do not have a problem getting another one. However I have a situation I need some help with.

My wife is a Chinese National and she lives in China, I live in the United States. I am an American by birth. We were married in China of 2014. I want to be with her and the U.S government is taking forever to get her coming application approved. I miss my wife and have not seen her in person since I left in January --

I have applied for Jobs in China, but I think companies do not take me seriously. I have not completed my 4 year degree, but I am back in college to finish this up and I am well rounded in many fields.

Does anyone have any suggestions?