how do iknow who is right for me?

Im born January 16.1987, witch is Dec. 17,1986 (BINGYIN Year) ,but too many guys approaching me though none stands out.. my high school friend wants to marry me but Im not sure.we in a long distance now but I dont know. his is born sep. 26,1986. which works out to be the same Dec. 17,1986 (BINGYIN Year) what u think?