well there be any hope for my sheep husband and I(ox year)

Yes, hope exists. If you want to improve the relaionship, both of you need to do something.

First, you need to find what is wrong for your relationsihp. The sheep husband always want to pursue freedom, so you can try to learn to let him go or even pursue with him together. Your husband also needs to learn to live by obeying some rules. No matter what happens, you need to communcate with each other, so that things may be easily solved.