my sign is dog (D.O.B) 11/25/1982.His sign is rat 11/14/1984

The relationship between you two are totally different from what the zodiac describes. According to the Chinese zodiac, rat and dog never quarrel or force each other to accept their own life styles. They both long for independent and quiet life. It seems that these two signs can make a happy life together. But why didn't it happen between you two? Anyway, the future is in your hands. If you want to make an end, you can let each other go. You will have the answers after you ask him whether he will come back to the US and tell the truth to your parents.