What is my best match?I'm a female Dragon, born 3/23/1964.

I know I can't foresee my destiny but I can impact it. Right?
My mate passed away, Jan. 2014.
He was perfect for me; a Rat.
All my life I have ALWAYS attracted Sheep -
as my friends who are women and male Sheep, who seem to be
attracted to me in droves...
Any advice? Should I try not to gobble up one of these male Sheep
by hurting his sensitive feelings or should I wait for another Rat, for
example, to show interest in me? Hmmm?