Help am I wrong dating the wrong sign too?I'm also a wood tiger and my man a water ox ?

I heard chinese horoscope don't match . We do have communication problem too. we both think we are right at things but he s a guy and should let a lady win. What should I do . This year suppose to fall in love then get marry for a tiger . Will it be true and how about career . What's a good month for me to find a new job for female tiger.