Having problem with love life with a ox man born Scorpio .

We get along first but sometimes he would bring up money / friendship issues. He doesn't trust nor have friends, he's paranoid about having friends and doesn't want to spare money for important cause.even for wedding soon. I'm a capricorn tiger born in 1975. I try to understand , tolerate , trust with him but hard . Don't know what to do? But overall we deeply adore each other. Please tell for later future. Will relation last?