I'm year of the OX, born on SEPT 13, 1985 Am I compatible w/ Oct 27, 1978 what is my luck this 2014?

I'm afraid you are not that compatible with the person born in 1978, as you have so many differences, in personality and interest. Anyway, this is just for reference and you should decide by yourself for whether going with the relationship.

As for your own fortune in 2014, it will be very good. As long as you are willing to work hard, you will gain what you deserve sonner or later.