my DOB is feb 9,1988;husband's is jan 30,1982.living together is questionable now,can it be worked?

Sorry I have to say he is too self-centered, so to handle the current problems requires more efforts. If you feel tortured and abused, it is suggested to live apart from him. Then you may have a good emotion and environment for your expecting. And it is necessary to communicate with your friends and family to keep a good spirit.

Dear Kikina

Thanks for the reply. You are right but i want to know what after this phase..?? will we be able to sail through it together..? will my baby have his father's name?

After the birth of your baby, things may get better. As long as you talk more and be more considerate to your husband, I am sure he will understand your care sooner or later. Just try!

Dear kikina

Kindly respond..

Things are not at all working out between us. I feel so lonely and sad by his inconsideration. He's way too aggressive and intolerant than any person I ever had to deal with. I'm loosing my control over me like never before. He does not understand my hormonal changes and behaves like a dumb guy. He's always focused on issues concerning him about himself.
Its my 8th month going on..At this stage of time I wanted my husband to be with me but instead of caring for me or the baby he's always occupied with blame games. Always accusing me for everything. I have developed hatred for him because he doesn't fulfill any kind of my emotional needs. I don't like his physical touch even. things are so falling apart. I dont know what to do.? I love him and want to be with him but his rude behavior even at this stage hurts me all the time. Sometimes I think if he's not supporting me in this difficult time and has left me alone how can i trust him for anything in the future. He already broke my trust by going around with other gals and filling a fake police complaint against me in which he alleged me of theft,being missing, misbehave, abusing, even physical abusing and all the other dirty things.
I really don't know what to do at this point of time. I'm so emotionally disturbed right now that i can't stand him in a single room when he starts throwing tantrums. otherwise i always desire him. It upsets me more and more that he doesn't care and talk about emotions or love and always makes me count the monetary expenses which he made being a husband and denies completely of any emotional support to be given to me. In my 1.5yr relationship with him i have realized we were never happy together. he never did emotional/romantic things for me.It was I who was putting all the efforts and when I withdrew them everything got shattered.

I'll be very grateful to you if you can really tell me whats going to happen and what should i do..! pls help Kikina

Sorry to hear your experience. As for ur situation, the best way is divorce for the sake of yourself and your baby. I am serious and you'd better consider this.