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Asked by simran from india | Mar. 21, 2013 08:33
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divorce or not?

when things will be fine. My sister dont want divorce.
my self Simran, i am cousin of Savi... she got married on 6Nov2011..sinceApril2012 nothing is going well.... she was so depressed that she try committed suicide
name: Savi
place of birth: Panipat (Haryana)INDIA
time:04:15 P.M
date of birth :9 march 1986
her husband's details: name: R
place of birth: Bhopal (MP)INDIA
time: 03:24P.M
date of birth :10 may 1984
PLEASE TELL WHEN SHE CAN EXPECT THINGS WILL BE FINE..HOW LONG SHE HAS HAS TO FACE DIVORCE ISSUE...IS THERE DIVORCE AS PER THE ABOVE DETAILS AND IF NOT THEN TILL WHEN THINGS WILL BE FINE?regards,
Simran

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Answered by Guest12 | Mar. 21, 2013 13:06
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She is a very sensitive person, affectionate, with a big heart. She also enjoys freedom more than others would. She can also be overly sentimental and have problems with nervousness. She loves unconditionally. Though, she is very sentimental and caring, she is also of a very strong temperament. She feels emotions stronger then others would. In love, she sees what she wants to see, rather than what is. When she is upset she feels like running, she doesn't always have the patience to wait things out. She needs to take care of herself more, try relaxing more often and might need to practice forgiveness.

He is more down to earth, quiet, patient but very assertive. He is a very stable person. He's very in control of his emotions. But on the negative be cautious with be him being controlling and/or possessive. He must also not feel that he’s trying to be controlled or possessed. He can also be quite selfish, arrogant, insensitive, vain and even materialistic. He might even come across as cold. She is more selfless and will have difficulty tolerating his ego.

Their initial stage in the relationship was wonderful, for him it was love at first sight. They're both very passionate and married without much thought. The marriage at first will have conflicts but if they choose to stay it can lead to a great long lasting relationship. Their biggest issue they will face as a couple will be the ego, selfishness. They must never interfere with each others freedom. The relationship has to have equal importance for both. He will need to change his habits, so his domestic life runs smoothly. He has to demonstrate his love to her, she needs love and affection. I recommend reading The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman. It’s an extraordinary book that will help them understand their partner and themselves also.

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Answered by Simran | Mar. 24, 2013 02:40
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TO Guest12
hi,

Thanks for the reply. I agree with what all u have said its true.But the problem is she came to stay with her parents in May 2012,for the first time after marriage in November 2011. Her in laws keep saying that they will come soon and then on June 4,2012 they said they have filed the divorce .She got completely broke. Since then she is crying day and night saying she cant live without R( her husband). Please suggest what she is suppose to do? She is getting depressed day by day and felt cheated by in laws. That's why she tried to commit suicide.

Hope u will reply soon. Thanks again.

Regards,
Simran
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Answered by Guest12 | Mar. 25, 2013 20:25
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This is a stormy time. Avoid confrontations and let the issue ride for the time being. Trying to settle the issue before its time would be a mistake and she will end up getting hurt in the process.
It's a very emotional time for her and she will need to work hard at controlling her emotions.
Fear may be paralyzing, she has more control than what she is aware of.
*A lesson she must learn is to leave pessimism and doubt behind.
The re-emergence of will and determination will arrive. She is one strong woman she needs to develop her spirituality. A period of rest and restoration of energies. Good changes are soon to come. She needs to prepare for problems that may re-emerge. She needs to learn to master detachment and in this case, she needs to be cunning. Evil will be defeated. Courage is needed to face challenges.
How does he feel about her?
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Answered by Guest12 | Mar. 25, 2013 20:34
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If you'd you can leave your email? We can e-mail instead of posting. Whatever makes you comfortable?
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Answered by simran | Mar. 26, 2013 01:48
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Dear Guest12 From USA Thanks for the reply.My mail is <span class="clspost">rediffmail.com|SIMRANcool10</span> .Please suggest what she is suppose to do? PLEASE TELL WHEN SHE CAN EXPECT THINGS WILL BE FINE..HOW LONG SHE HAS HAS TO FACE DIVORCE ISSUE...IS THERE DIVORCE AS PER THE ABOVE DETAILS AND IF NOT THEN TILL WHEN THINGS WILL BE FINE?I will look forward for ur reply.Hope u will reply soon. regards, SIMRAN Simran
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