I am a dragon and my boyfriend is an Ox.. Can we make it?

We are going strong I think. We would be 3 years in April. We are always happy and having fun but at the same time we always fight or argue with something but eventually we always fix it within the day.. I am having thoughts that we are not for each other cause he always makes me feel so small about myself and that we just argue about everything. But at the same time I really feel loved and being taken cared of.