why do i have a hard getting along with my wife. she's born 1979/and a leo. i am born 1963/and a leo

Has nothing to do with chinese zodiacs, she's born 1979/and a leo (SHEEP). i am born 1963/and a leo (RABBIT). Sheep and rabbits are suppose to get along. It might be your mars or venus signs

Also... Remember that Leo's are very passionate individuals... Both in good and bad... So throw this passion into something positive (or watch it burn...)
With these traits... U can definitely mesh well or blend as well as oil and water. Depends on how you, as a Leo, take things into perspective.

Geez, maybe because shes almost 20 yrs younger than you???

I know its offending but not a bad answer. I (snake) had a younger boyfriend (dog) and i got bored with him and he got bored with me. Plus society has changed a lot during those decades. We tried but found out that we didnt match.