Compatibility: I am a Rabbit and he a Pig.

We got a 90% (perfect match), but our relationship is anything but perfect! I don't understand why we can't get it right... Part of me thinks he's my twin flame, but it's gotten so bad idk anymore. Everything the pig represents I do not see in him, or him doing. He always wants to just start over, but I have a hard time letting go of past hurts because I fear being hurt again, and he won't "baby" me is what he says. Shows little empathy, and understanding that it will take time and on his part consistency to show me I can trust him again. Please any advice I would appreciate, we need help!