If my friends loves me but I can't find a way to feel the same way back why is that?

Well all I can say is that , maybe it's a gut feeling. Y'all might be compatible?? But maybe he or she is not the right one. You have to know this person's life and ways . So you won't get hurt. I'M a female rooster and i like this male oxen , but his life he's leading and ways are bad for me. And we're 90 percent compatible too .