Answered by Diana
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Feb. 05, 2022 14:52
I’m earth sheep and my husband fire snake, all I can say it’s tough love, we separates for yrs, he left and I gave him his space, both making bad choices apart, I was upset but he helped financially after I but the foot down, but he didn’t fight me on that, it came a time before we got back together I realize the only men I can forgive would be him, we all go thru faces, nobody is perfect, we have kids too, I know how much he loves them and us, that’s everything for me, we are now together finally matured and understood it’s not about us it’s about them and we agree on that family commitment. We both have been financially stable thru our hard careers but I’m the one that needs to control the finances for some peace of mind. At the end of the day how ever he upset me I sleep it off and start a new day, leaving the pass where it belongs, and I find myself time to take care of myself some times still working on it. Choosing to marry and/or choosing to have a family is a responsibility that one has to own it, I wish anyone struggling to have a little faith and look towards the future and fight with a straight mind and plenty of patience for your family!