compatibility

Hello!

I am a fire horse sagittarius 11.22.66 dating a metal ox libra 10.20.61. In the Chinese zodiac Ox and Horse are not a good match; it says we don’t understand each other. But in what ways does that mean? Also, please, could you explain what types of effort from Horse and from Ox would give a better chance of our relationship becoming something long-term? Thank you..Marie..Florida