Answered by Erica from United States | Dec. 18, 2019 22:57
A relatonship is only as compatible as the two people in it make it be. If only one side is giving and the other side is just taking there is no balance to the relationship. If youre giving out love and affection and loyalty and all your heart, and he cant even say if he wants to be commited to a future with you as his wife at some point, that says all you need to know about if your relationship has balance and how well and/or the lack of how well it will stand during the tests of time. You cant make a house with only two walls. You need all four walls to hold up the roof. Right now you are being the two little walls trying to hold the house up all alone. So you need to makw it clear to him that you want a definitive answer to whether or not he wants to be with you always, or you will leave. And if he doesnt give a real answer, LEAVE. In your case my advice, is Do Not waste your time with a male who cant grow up enough to be a Man. When a Man dates a woman and he realizes he truly wants her, HE WILL KEEP HER BY HIS SIDE. If he has to defy his family, his people, even his faith he will do it because at that point his Heart knows she was meant to be with him. He will let her know shes the world to him. Some men ARE shy and may need a push though. And thats fine too. So give your guy a little push. Let him know you are tired of feeling unsure about if he loves you the same way you love him. Open up and be Honest. And IF he still shows he doesnt want to be commited, Stop Wasting Your Life On Him And Leave.