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Asked by Eleaya from scotland | Dec. 16, 2018 01:52

About:Year of the Ox

Will it get better? Hi. My birthday is 15/09/1973. My life has been a nightmare.

Things have never gone well for me. If it can go wrong, it does, and almost always at the hands of an outside force that I didn’t see coming. It feels like the universe has always conspired against me, no matter what I do. Will it get better before I finally break?

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Answered by Emilie | Dec. 16, 2018 22:59

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I'm so sorry about what you have suffered. Don't worry too much, your general fortune in the next year will be much better. Things will get better in all aspects and don't lose the hope of life. Cheer up and keep going!

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Answered by Benito | Dec. 19, 2018 18:47

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I hope it does get better (same for me). It has been a terrible year for us, Oxen, but things do not last, fortunately for us, under the circumstances. Be brave and steadfast. We shall overcome this bad luck streak and keep moving and growing and living it up. Animo!

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Answered by Eleaya | Dec. 21, 2018 02:21

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Thank you Benito. It can be hard sometimes to see the light, but giving up isn't in my nature. Good luck to you sweetheart. I wish you all the best.

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Answered by p landreth | Dec. 27, 2018 19:27

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My friend I just happened upon your message on this site as I was looking for clues as to the energy for this coming year as it has been the SECOND WORST YEAR OF MY LIFE!! I just turned 45 and had my business, home and future pulled right out from under me by my business partners. It triggered my life long battle with mental illness and I have been in the darkest place of my life. Second worst year after loosing my mother to drunk drivers when I was 13. She adpped me when I was 6 and her love turned me into the wonderful person I know I am, but can no longer recognize, or even care to know anymore.
But I have been thinking there is no action with a reaction and each reaction started from an action. I must get honest with myself and look at these moments when I think, "FINALLY, THIS IS IT FOR ME!!!! I"ve worked so hard and have done everything correctly. I was living on an 11million dollar estate on an island in maine with my own business and taugh yoga and …… I'm on food stamps and have been exhausted trying to get disability, but I also got honest and for the first time realized, sometimes bad things happen to good people and I started a gratitude journal.
It's helped plant a seed of honesty and light in my otherwise dark world and hope you can take the time to give yourself the gift of honesty. Because in that honesty is the freedom to let go of it and make better because you know better. Just like Maya Angelou use to say!

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Answered by Olya | Jan. 01, 2019 13:01

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Read the book by the Dalai Lama, The Art of Happiness. It teaches us what is important in life. And believe in yourself. Bad things in life come and go. Good things in life come and go. Hold on to what is important to you.

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Answered by clena | Jan. 02, 2019 11:53

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I believe we all go through good and bad things either to teach us a lesson due to how we behave. The law of nature or universe...what you give out is what you get back in return. We all can learn from each others experience and try to handle it the best way we can when it comes to us. Be strong and don't lose hope, and if you have a faith .. keep your faith and hold on to it. God knows he has been my stronghold during my storms.

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Answered by WESMARK | Dec. 30, 2018 16:22

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I can relate to your story. I think 2018, overall, was a rough one for most people. Rough because a lot of things that no longer server us had to be removed. The removal of it all is quite uncomfortable-- what real change existed inside comfortability? 2018 allowed a lot of us to get uncomfortable and in that process, that moment of self reflection, you get a spark, a whisper, a gift of inspiration or thought allowing one to relook at your circumstance and move forward into the next phase with a set gifts. I believe 2019 will allow us all to flow into the year with beautiful lessons learnt in 2018. You are not alone, know, that there is light after every storm and when we wait, and trust, there will be flowers too. Believe and listen to the universe speaking in all its forms. Wesley x

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Answered by Diane | Feb. 01, 2019 22:03

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Bad circumstances comes in waves, let just hope it passes quickly and the good times start rolling within the tides again. Let not us forget oxen learn well from our mistakes and strive through threefold thereafter. Wish for positivity and it will Manifest I wish you well. Never give up. Goodluck!!!

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Answered by Eleaya | Feb. 03, 2019 01:31

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Thank you Wesley. I hope things get better for you. We oxen are strong, if nothing else. I wish you all the best. X

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Answered by Eleaya | Feb. 03, 2019 01:37

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What you give, isn't what you get. Nobody deserves what they get. I see beautiful, kind people have the most horrific lives, and on the other hand, the most awful people, who have the most amazing lives. I think we get given a life, and how we deal with what we get is what the point of it all is. I wish you all the best. Thank you for your kind words.

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Answered by Akehurst | Feb. 05, 2019 13:12

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I am joing your club but a word off advice thats hard to focus on -live in the Present even if its only 5 minutes at a time (My life from 7 has been pretty much a very scary ride on a rollercoaster)I am 29 th Sept 1976.You can't change the past and if other people have done you wrong in order to forget you HAVE to FORGIVE it's hard thing to take -but try not to predict the future as my plans never go to plan so i don't plan i wing it -Life ,Motherhood ,Eyebrows -Everything and i think there are children all over the world in a far worse place than my son or me ..

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Answered by Akehurst | Feb. 05, 2019 13:19

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Well done dealing with curcumstances you would not want anyone else to be in (Todays world can be a crule unkind place ,cultural changes apear to be going backwards not forwards ..)People being racist to children ,rude to disabled people (both have happened to me and my son-forget people like that if they ditch you new friends or old ones turn up..)Never wish ill on anyone else and help yourself ...Then people that would and have helped you

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Answered by Akehurst | Feb. 05, 2019 13:23

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Disagree unless i was an Axe Murder in a former life ?(Why did my brother get Cancer ?Why was i abused at 7 ?To
teach me a lesson ?)Sure was a lesson i was not expecting then a brain injury ?3 Members off my family dying within 3 days that a blooming hard lesson for anyone ...and not one that i needed

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