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Asked by m from india | May. 23, 2018 03:27

About:Year of the Rooster

born on 08 oct 1969. my wife is fire dragon I am married since 21 years...

last year in aug 17 she met her old school friend on facebook.... I came to know... she said she loved him then... and now... she has lost interest in me .... keeps nagging... we fight... I am very depressed... I even tried to commit suicide to get out of her way... but failed .. l lost my foot in that... now I am more helpless.... we did not had a very cordial marriage life in 21 years... but after this incident I am totally lost... I don't know what to do

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Answered by Christian | May. 23, 2018 22:04

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I’m sorry to hear that. I think you shouldn’t have done such things. If you have tried your best to save your marriage and failed, just stop and give up. Loyalty is the base of a marriage and you have lost that. Because of your marriage, you have lost your foot and even your confidence to live. Why not let it go and step forward? You should let your wife purse her true love and you also do. Everything will get well and best wishes to you.

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Answered by Yumi | Jun. 25, 2018 18:35

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Just let me tell you one thing. If she loves someone else when she made a commitment to you and then decided to carry her pretty self into someone else's life, she doesn't deserve you. I get that you are depressed. I understand. But if some.... person just leaves you for someone else she technically just met, you don't need her. If she comes back crying or whatever, obviously be nice but don't accept her as your wife or anything again. You need and you will find someone better than a woman who decided to jump from man to man like some high school school-girls. Please, PLEASE do not kill yourself. You will certainly find someone better. I don't know about you, but I believe in Jesus. So please, God bless you. I know God will provide for you.

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Answered by Yumi | Jun. 25, 2018 18:41

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By the way, let her go on and have him. Of he rejects her or something then let her be. You will not be babysitting other people. You are the only one you should take care of. You are the only key to you destiny. You can either lose the key and commit suicide, or you can save it and possibly live your life to the happiest and to the fullest extent. If no one wants to be with you, then WHO cares? You don't! If no one wants to be with you then shoo, just live your life full of friends but somewhat lone ranger. You should just "escape " and travel anywhere and everywhere.

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Answered by Mike | Oct. 06, 2018 07:46

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Stayed in a bad marriage for 30+ years. I have since found a beautiful women, inside and out, that appreciates me and me her. We are going on 3 years of marriage and I have lived more in the past 3 years than the previous 30. There are 17 year’s difference in age between us but you would not know it, we connect on so many different levels. There is somebody out there for you that will bring you the joy that I have experienced over the last 3 years. Keep your head up, be positive and show people your best side.

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