Marital issues: Should I move on?

I am a sheep born December 23, 1967 in India and my husband is a Rabbit born April 25, 1963 in Trinidad. For both of us it is our second marriage and we both have a daughter from our first marriage and now we have a daughter together 14 year old. we have been married together for 15 years now and i had thought according to our compatibility with signs sheep and Rabbit make a good match but it seems like we are growing apart day by day and feel there is not love between us. we are loving together but i always feel my husband does not stand up for me, does not love me, attend to my feelings and seems disinterested. His family also does not treat me nice and have a lot if influence on him against me. i try to help him, care for him, helped his family and his daughter too but no appreciation. i work hard, go to job, earn and come home do all work as well. my husband helps with chores if i ask him but he does not care for my feelings, always puts me down, becomes passive aggressive on special occasions like anniversary, birthdays etc. i feel rejected and unloved. we have tried marriage counselling also for years; no benefit. he thinks he is perfect and there is nothing wrong with him. please advise me what to do, should i continue to tolerate if there is hope for change and improvement in our marriage and some happiness or should i end this marriage also even though i do not want to. Thanks a lot.