Shall i pursue him?

Hi, i am a rooster female (7 June 1969) and i really like a male who is a rabbit (15 Nov 1987) It seems we are both attracted to each other but i feel like i am doing all the work with regard to instigating messages etc. Am i wasting my time? I have tried to take a back seat but i feel confused by his actions. Is he just seeing how things go? Thank you