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Asked by RAJJO_Y | Oct. 31, 2017 20:17

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I am female horse born on 29th June,1978. my husband born on 7th June 1975,facing marriage problems.

I was born on 29th June night around 9:30 pm in India, and my husband born on 7th June 1975 around 7:30am in India. I have been facing many issues from in laws, my husband has been not paying attention to my health. These things made a big problem in our marriage. My husband quit his job, when does marriage problems get solved, how will be the career for me and for my husband for coming year 2018? is there any change of place for US? (with in USA or not?).

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Answered by Peter | Nov. 01, 2017 04:26

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I’m not surprised that he has quit his job. It is his opposite year, and Uranus transits through his 10th House of Career. For the last 6 years Uranus has transited through his 10th House, compromising the way people see him. In about a year, Uranus will exit his Career House. I have good news for him. Next year 2018 he is going to have a wonderful year. He also had Mars conjunct Jupiter, which makes him prone to spend more than he earns. Next year you will also have an excellent year, so I predict a conciliatory approach will happen in your married life, and everything will be good for the two of you starting from the beginning of February 2018. You had an afflicted Uranus in your 9th house of foreign countries, so you will experience problems in faraway lands. Because you were born in a year with Earth element, and he was born in a year with Wood element, you find him too controlling. He only wants the best for you and him. His natal Moon was 60° away from your natal Sun, making it the best aspect for love and romantic loyalty between you two. You and your husband already know that a union is between you and him. If you try to include the in-laws too, it won’t work. Good luck to both of you.

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Answered by Peter | Nov. 04, 2017 00:22

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Rajjo,
Your stay in your new country has Metal element (2001). Last year and this year had Fire elements. So your stay there was a bit problematic, being caused by this incompatibility of yearly elements. From next year 2018 and following 2019, you will have two splendid years, since Earth years would benefit your residing there. The 9th House represents religion, higher studies, and foreign countries. Since you weren’t born there, an afflicted Uranus in your 9th House could cause difficulties to you. Your natal Uranus was also in trine to your Sun and Jupiter, two excellent aspects, which will help you stay there as long as you want and be successful. If you in-laws live in a different country, I fail to see your complaint. You and your man will have a good marriage.

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Answered by RAJJO_Y | Nov. 03, 2017 21:47

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Thank you Peter for answering my question, I forgot to mention I have been living in USA since 2001 and my in laws live in India. You mentioned "I had an afflicted Uranus in my 9th house of foreign countries". Is this what making the problem with in laws? does it ever change?

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Answered by RAJJO_Y | Nov. 04, 2017 22:07

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My in laws will keep calling over phone and make my husband do things differently than what he would do without their intervention, and they keep calling to shout on me(including night time).When we have to visit India (including my parents, sisters and other relatives - every one lives there) there were times they did not let me visit my parents or restrict me that I have to stay lot more days at in laws place than parents. They were not letting kids eat what they could eat(kids had reflux issue) when we visit. I did not realize until this year why I was having different kinds of pains since 2012 which finally responded to depression medicine then only I realized the combination of in laws and husband's restriction on so many minute, petty things resulted in such a way to my health.

In laws kept asking husband to send all the money to them and he did from 2003 until 2012 100%, later on some- not all the money, they think they are rich and superior because they have control of money.( I paid for husband's education what ever needed and other educational help where he does not have skill too until he settled in 2008, but husband conveyed in laws all his success is his own effort (he was telling he told everything what happened here), - in laws wanted dowry and husband and myself both gave the money to them together, but husband conveyed that everything is his - this I could only clear with in laws this year). We actually got married in Feb 2007. We both met each other in 2002 in USA. Would they ever be normal or nice with me ? Both husband and in laws never letting me visit my parents with peace.

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Answered by Peter | Nov. 05, 2017 16:38

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Rajjo,
Thank you for sharing with a wide audience, the touching story of your sufferings. Astrology teaches us the art of finding a person with whom we share our lives, and be happy in a marriage situation. Your marriage is totally different. Since you had married in the year of the Water Horse, your marriage had suffered in the last two years, and it will continue to do so for two more years, after which it will start to change for the better. Your mistake when you married was that you failed to inquire from your future husband, what does he want from life. I don’t normally encourage a woman to divorce her husband, especially if they have children. Because you were born in the year of the Earth Horse, the marriage you contracted in 2002 was Water Horse, and two horse entities are bound to separate, as they don’t get along. For your own wellbeing, you should get out of that alliance. If you had married on a solar eclipse, your marriage is fated to fail whatever the case may be. You didn’t write on what date you’ve married in 2002 in the US. Did he need to marry to get a green card? Because this is another ringing bell situation. I hope it will work well for you no matter what you decide to do. Good luck to your family.

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Answered by Erik | Nov. 13, 2017 15:15

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i was born on 19:27(7:27 pm) in Ljubljana,Slovenia, Europe....im doing bad at school and wish it was better ...its my first year of highschool...what are the following 4 years gonna bring new to my life....or at least what can u say about my situation...i know it will get better in december but it is showing me that 2018 wont be a firtunate year for me looking at career

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