I'm a female how born in October 15,1989. i have two guys in my life which one is the correct?

well i like this guy who born in January 14,1989 but i not sure if is a good idea to try something with him. on the other hand a very good friend confess to my after i told him about the other guy. he born in December 14,18987. should i risk my friendship or should i go for the new guy? which one is more compatible with my?