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Asked by Dragon&Tiger from usa | Aug. 25, 2017 17:23

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Dragon 1976 & Tiger 1974 together

I'm born June 7,1976. My hubby born Feb10,1974.my hubby has mistress. He is a pilot in Asia, I'm a nurse in US. We have son born Dec12,2010. Our marriage in trouble now. How can we repair it? Do we see a great future for our family. I want him to work in US coz he's US citizen. We have better benefits in US. How can we make this marriage work? What's the future of our family&career? Hoping to work this out. We used to be so happy before he had mistress. What can I do to stop our conflict. Thank you!

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Answered by Peter | Aug. 26, 2017 19:00

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Dear Dragon Lady,
Although our table at Love compatibility shows that the two of you make perfect couple in love, I have to clarify few things. Since your man was born in a year with Wood element, and you were born in a year with Fire element, it would’ve worked if the husband, were to be born in a Fire year and the wife in a Wood year, since wood burns, to keep the fire going. Your trump card is your son (Metal Tiger), but I’m afraid that your husband has other plans, according to the transits of the planets over his natal planets. Your plan is to bring him back. As you approach the year of the Earth Dog (2018), you will soon discover that it is your’ opposite year, and everything you try to do it won’t work in your favour. Next year your husband will have an excellent year. I’m sorry that I cannot see any changes in the stars, so I could give you that answer you are looking for. You have two choices: You either wait for better times, or you marry someone else. I have to say that you are a fine woman, with a strong character. Find a man born in 1984, and he will be your best match. Good luck to you.

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Answered by Dragon lady | Aug. 28, 2017 14:54

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When is that better time that you're saying? Are you telling me that with regards to my marriage only, Earth dog isn't my year. Are you pertaining to even my whole status in life or just my marriage. My husband is applying for another job. Is he also going to find another partner? Is there anything I can do so atleast we don't get divorce? I believe right now, it's only our son that's holding us together.

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Answered by Peter | Aug. 29, 2017 03:06

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DL,
Next year will be your’ opposite year. It will affect you in every aspect of your life, so marriage will be included. As long as you won’t take any decision in 2018, you cannot suffer from taking the wrong decisions. Wait for one more year, before deciding anything. Just take cover, because opposite years hit us hard. I agree with you. He should think about bringing up his child in a good family environment. Tell that to his hormones… You can only take a horse to the water, but you cannot make it drink. The better time I was mentioning to you will be from 2019 on. If you have patience you will win. Good luck to you.

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Answered by DL | Aug. 30, 2017 17:15

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do u see me staying married? Should I just let go of this marriage? I'm doing good overall except for my marriage. Is there anything I can do to fix my marriage?

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Answered by Peter | Aug. 30, 2017 19:08

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I don’t see a way out of this predicament you are in. You want to uphold a marriage, which is already broken. You don’t have to do anything. Your husband already broke with you. You can pretend that nothing happened and live a lie. It seems to me that your marriage could be fixed, but not by you. Your husband should come back to you. If he doesn’t come back, your marriage is just on paper. Give him a time frame to come back. Tell him that if he doesn’t, it is over between you two. When a metal breaks, we weld it. But it hasn’t got the same strength as it had before it broke. Good luck to you.

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Answered by DL | Aug. 31, 2017 11:45

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What time frame should I give him. You think he's going to come back! He said he'll visit this September. I don't know if we should file divorce or wait for things to subside. We both hurt each other. We can give each other a break, time to cool down. My son is super sad. He is already affected. If not for my son, it wouldn't be this hard! I hope my hubby will wake up. His thoughts are so clouded. He's not in his straight mind. He enjoyed his freedom & money. Will he become a captain soon? Will he still provide for me & my son? He should give what's do for us. Hopefully, we settle amicably. I hate fighting! He's very argumentative. Is he living w somebody else now?

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Answered by Peter | Aug. 31, 2017 21:01

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He will provide for his son, but he won't give you a dime.

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Answered by DL | Sep. 01, 2017 11:24

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My hubby is a no show at work. Company has been looking for him for 3days now. Email, calls no reply. He hasn't contacted anybody. How can he provide? He might lose his job. Wonder where he went. Probably soul searching. I hope he finds himself real soon. He ruined his family already, now even his career, he'll ruin. What's going on w him?

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Answered by DL | Sep. 02, 2017 06:00

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What do u see in his future? Will he be able to revive himself?

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Answered by Peter | Sep. 07, 2017 23:33

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His future will be bright. He will find another job and will forge ahead.

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Answered by DL | Sep. 20, 2017 17:13

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How how me? What do u see in my future? My husband said he doesn't plan to separate with me.

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Answered by DL | Sep. 20, 2017 17:15

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What about me? Can u tell me what you see in me. Will I stay in my job? Will I find new partner soon? Travel? I just hope I bring my son the right way.

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