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Asked by liz from philippines | Aug. 24, 2017 02:00

About:Year of the Horse

any chance for us married couple to have a good terms in the future?so anxious,

we have been married for so long, but i still have this grudges to my husband and to his family especially his other, we are not ok and not in good terms. my husband born on july 28,1962 and me born on march 23,1966 i guess we are compatible but the challenge was his mother, she is not ok to me, up until now it is my problem i cant deny, i feel like my husband still prioritizes his parents rather us his own family.though our kids are all grown up,i cant accept and forgive his mistakes to me. what should i do?we almost separate,and i cant help but to always get mad to my husband.pls.i need your answers.thank you!

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Answered by Denise | Aug. 25, 2017 01:02

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Your compatibility rate is high, however confilcts are unavoidable in family life. You are suggest to communicate with your husband and tell him what you want. And you should try to understand him. You said that you both have problem, so it's very important to make compromises and reach mutual understanding.

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Answered by Peter | Aug. 25, 2017 23:57

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Liz,
Your husband and you have a little problem in getting along with each other. Our table on this page at Love compatibility shows that Tiger and Horse get the top mark in marriage. Because your husband was born in a year with Water element and you were born in a year with Fire element, he has the same effect on you as pouring water over the fire. I can see your point of view. You must try to have a broader view towards life, since he cares about his parents, as they are old and they need much attention. When you will get old, you too would like your children to give you more attention. Because he was born in a year with Water element, he is a very caring man. This year and last year were Fire years, and these two years interacted with the Fire given to you by your year of your birth (1966) and created too much upset in your heart. Wait until next year (2018) and you will start to feel differently about this situation. Don’t jeopardise your long marriage to him, by not showing a bit of understanding. The way you presented your situation here, shows you as a selfish woman, and it is not the case, when I look at your astrological chart. You and him will have an excellent year next year, so please be patient for few more months, and you will rip the rewards. Good luck to both of you.

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