

what should I do to my problems: I was born on October 21,1977
Hello, I'm Bhadra from Indonesia. My Chinese zodiac is Fire - snake. I want to ask about my connection with my husband - a Taiwanese, born on December 30,1968. We had a marriage on 3rd November 2011. But our marriage have been strange very much; formerly we decided to stay in Indonesia, but 4 months later after marriage he left me to went to Taiwan with reason he must take care of his parents; after several month he came back to Indonesia and then since 2013 he decided to stay in Taiwan and ordered me to stay in Taiwan,but after I have staid in Taiwan for 3 months, he ordered me to go to Indonesia alone because I have no job in Taiwan while my carrier in Indonesia as Chinese physician is not bad. In 2014 my husband came to Indonesia and ordered me to buy a land and build a house for us. But in end of 2015 he left me to go to Taiwan and till this time he doesn't willing back to Indonesia and forced me to stay in Taiwan, but if I don't willing to come to Taiwan, he want to divorced with me. My questions:
1. Should I divorced with my husband in this year or should I patient to wait the challenges in next year?
2. I want to sell the house which built last year immediately, is the time good for sell the house?